Read all through and I can’t help but be amazed by how gentle your words are whilst guiding the reader with a fatherly tone…
For anyone reading this, you should share this article to any lady/ladies you have on your radar for marriage.
This can very well serve as a pretty accurate litmus test of character, how high she regards you, and how much she values you—for a plethora of reasons…
If she actually reads all through this piece, at the baseline, she’s far better than a substantial margin of the world’s population, because it would mean her attention span isn’t fried at least, and that she’s capable of reading long “boring” pieces that do not not usually appeal to the larger female audience. This is the first indication that sets her apart, and above others.
Next, her reading all through, because *you* sent it to her, makes her a strong candidate for the spousal position. This gesture of hers points to the fact that she values anything that comes from you. She holds precious the idea that you thought of her when you came across this. She immerses herself in this piece not just for the words of wisdom embedded within, but also for the very reason that it came from you.
If after reading the article, she comes to you to discuss her understanding, or asks to clarify her confusion with further nuances, you might as well marry her the next Sunday.
This is not hyperbole. I can’t begin to go into why this is the crowning act of it all.
Picture this; She comes to you to discuss the article you shared with her earlier—for whatever reasons, be it her not understanding certain paragraphs or simply for the sake of wanting to hear your own ideas. She breaches the topic, creating an atmosphere for conversation, waiting eagerly for your words to find their way to her ears and lodge themselves in a safe and uncluttered part of her memory.
It would mean she holds you with high regards. She wants to connect with you at a level that’s more than just physical. She is willing to learn—not just from anyone, but from you in particular. It would be a sign of how much she wants to devote herself to you.
Share the piece above with her, and from her subsequent actions/reactions, you can glean where she stands with you, as well as where you stand with her.
Obviously, this is not absolute. But then again, nothing ever is.
Beautiful, IM. Hopefully you would write a book on raising a daughter, which is much more prescriptive. Or a book that helps women to navigate the world. RooshV's lady is a good one, but I think you can truly fill the void on that.
Women often villainize men who positively challenge them and compel them to grow as ‘toxic,’ while they giggle with those who don’t truly care about them and only want to enjoy their company, engage in idle talk, and flirt. This is the tragedy of ‘going by the feelz’ that many women find themselves trapped in.
My comment is not meant to be condescending or a criticism of women. It is my paternal lament over being misunderstood and not being seen. It's heartbreaking.
Thanks for this. I believe most women will self-destruct once in their life. I really wish I could send this beautiful piece to this girl, but yea, women will always be women
I’m dating a girl with border line personality disorder and I feel like all girls have some kind of bpd ? But the bpd girl is a like a women 10 times ten with the volatility
I've yet to meet a woman (at least those single past a certain age), who didn't present with some sort of mental instability be it depression, anxiety, bpd, etc.
Read all through and I can’t help but be amazed by how gentle your words are whilst guiding the reader with a fatherly tone…
For anyone reading this, you should share this article to any lady/ladies you have on your radar for marriage.
This can very well serve as a pretty accurate litmus test of character, how high she regards you, and how much she values you—for a plethora of reasons…
If she actually reads all through this piece, at the baseline, she’s far better than a substantial margin of the world’s population, because it would mean her attention span isn’t fried at least, and that she’s capable of reading long “boring” pieces that do not not usually appeal to the larger female audience. This is the first indication that sets her apart, and above others.
Next, her reading all through, because *you* sent it to her, makes her a strong candidate for the spousal position. This gesture of hers points to the fact that she values anything that comes from you. She holds precious the idea that you thought of her when you came across this. She immerses herself in this piece not just for the words of wisdom embedded within, but also for the very reason that it came from you.
If after reading the article, she comes to you to discuss her understanding, or asks to clarify her confusion with further nuances, you might as well marry her the next Sunday.
This is not hyperbole. I can’t begin to go into why this is the crowning act of it all.
Picture this; She comes to you to discuss the article you shared with her earlier—for whatever reasons, be it her not understanding certain paragraphs or simply for the sake of wanting to hear your own ideas. She breaches the topic, creating an atmosphere for conversation, waiting eagerly for your words to find their way to her ears and lodge themselves in a safe and uncluttered part of her memory.
It would mean she holds you with high regards. She wants to connect with you at a level that’s more than just physical. She is willing to learn—not just from anyone, but from you in particular. It would be a sign of how much she wants to devote herself to you.
Share the piece above with her, and from her subsequent actions/reactions, you can glean where she stands with you, as well as where you stand with her.
Obviously, this is not absolute. But then again, nothing ever is.
Awesome!
Beautiful, IM. Hopefully you would write a book on raising a daughter, which is much more prescriptive. Or a book that helps women to navigate the world. RooshV's lady is a good one, but I think you can truly fill the void on that.
Women often villainize men who positively challenge them and compel them to grow as ‘toxic,’ while they giggle with those who don’t truly care about them and only want to enjoy their company, engage in idle talk, and flirt. This is the tragedy of ‘going by the feelz’ that many women find themselves trapped in.
My comment is not meant to be condescending or a criticism of women. It is my paternal lament over being misunderstood and not being seen. It's heartbreaking.
Thanks for this. I believe most women will self-destruct once in their life. I really wish I could send this beautiful piece to this girl, but yea, women will always be women
I’m dating a girl with border line personality disorder and I feel like all girls have some kind of bpd ? But the bpd girl is a like a women 10 times ten with the volatility
I've yet to meet a woman (at least those single past a certain age), who didn't present with some sort of mental instability be it depression, anxiety, bpd, etc.
Yeah same here it’s like wtf is going on
Observation, combined with an analytical mind that recognises patterns where there is, and where there seemingly isn't.
Then using gotten insights to overlay, and further enhance your maps of reality.